| The sleeping pattern:
After a short phase of getting to sleep comes the deep sleep phase. The so-called
non R.E.M. lasts for 3-4 hours. A person in this phase is unlikely to wake up. Afterwards
the period of light sleep begins, with more awakenings. That is the time in which we dream
and enter R.E.M. sleep known as such because of the rapid eye movement. In this phase we often have six or seven awakenings per night. Adults don't
often notice this because they immediately go back to sleep. In contrast small children
often can't get back to sleep because their sleeping conditions have changed, for example,
the absence of the dummy, the mothers arm, her voice, the baby bottle etc. Children who
normally sleep alone in their beds only rarely have sleeping problems. In truth they
actually wake more often but because being alone is their normal pre-sleep condition they
go straight back to sleep with no outside help.
| The American sleep researcher Richard
Ferber (book title right) has developed a way which many mothers have
successfully used in the meantime: - the
child should stay awake but in bed for a fixed period of time.
- if they cry you should go to them after three minutes
however don't pick them up, give them a dummy or bottle but you can touch them gently and
speak to them softly to try and calm them.
- If the baby continues to cry you should repeat this every
five minutes until the child is asleep. You can leave them to cry for up to 7 minutes.
- the same procedure can be used every night if they wake
up. |
Caution!
- For babies up to six months old: they still don't have any
fixed sleeping pattern, so the Ferber method cannot be used. However in the first week you
can introduce a later evening meal. Wake your child up regularly, before you yourself go
to bed and give them a big drink. You can also gradually extend the time between
mealtimes.
- If the baby cries all the time during the day, it means they
need a comphrehensive daily routine. You should be able to avoid having to continually
calm your baby. From time to time give your baby a few minutes to calm itself down.
- Within six months the baby will have learnt to tell the
difference between night and day. Their sleep pattern will be similar to an adults. They
can quite happily sleep for 11 hours and no longer need a drink at night.
- Fixed bed times are the best sleeping aid and older babies
adapt best when they wake up in their own bed every time.
- Up until the end of the first year babies need a morning and
afternoon sleep. The longest period spent awake should always be in the evenings before
they go to bed.

- If your child wakes up and won't sleep in their own room use
the "door open-door closed" method. This is controlling the child through
their behaviour. If the door is open they stay in bed but if the door is closed for a
short time then they will get up.
- Source: Kast-Zahn / Morgenroth: 'Every child
can learn to sleep'.
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