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The never ending drama - Falling asleep and staying asleep
Many parents recognise the problem -  despite regular routines, fixed bedtimes and regular pre-sleep rituals - small children often have difficulty getting to sleep and stay awake crying or shouting all night. What do you do?
The sleeping pattern: After a short phase of getting to sleep comes the deep sleep phase. The so-called non R.E.M. lasts for 3-4 hours. A person in this phase is unlikely to wake up. Afterwards the period of light sleep begins, with more awakenings. That is the time in which we dream and enter R.E.M. sleep known as such because of the rapid eye movement.

In this phase we often have six or seven awakenings per night. Adults don't often notice this because they immediately go back to sleep. In contrast small children often can't get back to sleep because their sleeping conditions have changed, for example, the absence of the dummy, the mothers arm, her voice, the baby bottle etc. Children who normally sleep alone in their beds only rarely have sleeping problems. In truth they actually wake more often but because being alone is their normal pre-sleep condition they go straight back to sleep with no outside help.

The American sleep researcher Richard Ferber (book title right) has developed a way which many mothers have successfully used in the meantime:

- the child should stay awake but in bed for a fixed period of time.

- if they cry you should go to them after three minutes however don't pick them up, give them a dummy or bottle but you can touch them gently and speak to them softly to try and calm them.

- If the baby continues to cry you should repeat this every five minutes until the child is asleep. You can leave them to cry for up to 7 minutes.  

- the same procedure can be used every night if they wake up.

Caution!

  • For babies up to six months old: they still don't have any fixed sleeping pattern, so the Ferber method cannot be used. However in the first week you can introduce a later evening meal. Wake your child up regularly, before you yourself go to bed and give them a big drink. You can also gradually extend the time between mealtimes.
  • If the baby cries all the time during the day, it means they need a comphrehensive daily routine. You should be able to avoid having to continually calm your baby. From time to time give your baby a few minutes to calm itself down.
  • Within six months the baby will have learnt to tell the difference between night and day. Their sleep pattern will be similar to an adults. They can quite happily sleep for 11 hours and no longer need a drink at night.
  • Fixed bed times are the best sleeping aid and older babies adapt best when they wake up in their own bed every time.
  • Up until the end of the first year babies need a morning and afternoon sleep. The longest period spent awake should always be in the evenings before they go to bed.
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  • If your child wakes up and won't sleep in their own room use the "door open-door closed" method.  This is controlling the child through their behaviour. If the door is open they stay in bed but if the door is closed for a short time then they will get up.
  • Source: Kast-Zahn / Morgenroth: 'Every child can learn to sleep'.
L i t e r a t u r e
3980449300.03.MZZZZZZZ (11432 Byte) "Jedes Kind kann schlafen lernen." Annette Kast-Zahn u. Hartmut Morgenroth.
Gebundene Ausgabe - 160 Seiten (1997) Oberstebrink Vlg, Rating., versandfertig in 24 Std.
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3423361891.03.MZZZZZZZ (6990 Byte) "Schlaf Kindlein, verflixt nochmal" von Jirina Prekop.
Taschenbuch - 131 Seiten (2000) DTV, versandfertig in 2 bis 3 Werktagen.
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3894375043.03.MZZZZZZZ (12710 Byte) "Schlaf gut, mein kleiner Schatz." von Gary Ezzo u. Robert Bucknam.
Taschenbuch - 171 Seiten (1997) Schulte u. Gerth, Assl.; versandfertig in 2 bis 3 Werktagen.
12,95 EUR Bestell ich
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3878270747.03.MZZZZZZZ (7147 Byte) "Schlaf, Kindlein, schlaf. Schlafprobleme bei Kindern" von Richard Ferber.
Taschenbuch- 244 Seiten (1994) Ed. Trobisch, Kehl, versandfertig in 2-3 Tagen
12,00 EUR Bestell ich
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3499193973.03.MZZZZZZZ (11105 Byte) "Einschlafen, Durchschlafen, Ausschlafen." von Sabine Friedrich u. Volker Friebel.
Taschenbuch - 149 Seiten (1993) Rowohlt TB-V., Rnb., versandfertig in 24 Stunden.
8,50 EUR   Bestell ich
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